To kiss or not to kiss. Should you kiss a woman on a first date? If the chemistry is there, then absolutely! On first dates, most guys wait until the end of the date for the “goodnight kiss”. Many others cowardly avoid the first date kiss all together, or wait for her to make a move – not a good move guys. You need to understand that women are waiting for YOU to initiate the first date kiss! If you don’t you’re going to come off as either not interested, insecure, or just scared. You don’t want to appear to be any of these or you may not get a second date. Most guys just don’t realize how important that first date kiss is to woman. Well, this should give you an idea: When you kiss a woman for the first time, she often decides right then if she ever wants to kiss you again.
If you feel that the chemistry is there, you’ve got to kiss a woman goodnight! What is the worst thing that could happen? She might offer you her cheek or hand instead but at least you took a chance. Don’t wait for her to make the first move – she probably won’t. Further, it will tell you exactly how the date went, and if she is interested in a second date. The first date kiss is very important to you as your dating skills grow.
The goodnight kiss can also be very awkward. However, you really want this to leave a good lasting impression. To do this, you’ve got to be smooth and confident, while giving her a good kiss at the same time.
Here’s a little technique that you might want to try. Don’t wait until the end of the date, kiss her “hello” instead! I hear you saying, “Isn’t that a little too bold for a woman you hardly know?” Yes it is bold, but It sets the tone of the date, and removes that anxious moment at the end of the date where you both are standing at her door, or sitting in your car feeking nervous, and not really sure what to do next. If you get this out of the way in the beginning, the kiss at the end of the date seems much more natural, and is even looked-forward to! The key is in how you approach this first date kiss.
A kiss on the cheek is a common greeting. This makes the opening first date kiss seem much more normal rather than forced. However, just like the goodnight kiss, you have to time it, and execute it properly. When you meet up, tell her how great it is to meet her and then plant one on her cheek. I have found that most woman will except a kiss on the cheek even if they just met you for the first time.